i was at dinner with some of my nearest and dearest a few weeks ago, and just like out of a scene from a bravo tv show, the book appears on the table. we laughed about it for the rest of the night (and will probably continue to do so for the rest of our lives.)
some of my personal favorites include:
#14: having black friends
#20: being an expert on YOUR culture
#33: marijuana
#78: multi-lingual children